Christopher De Vinck, a Roman Catholic devotional writer, shares about his older brother Oliver, who was severely disabled. In addition to the short essay below, De Vinck also wrote a book on his life with his brother. He has written many other books, many of them centering on the discovery of the Divine in simple things.
Concerning Oliver and his brother Christopher: http://www.patersondiocese.org/moreinfo.cfm?Web_ID=1958
The Book: “The Power of the Powerless: A Brother’s Legacy of Love:” http://www.google.com/products/catalog?q=The+Power+of+the+Powerless:+A+Brother’s+Legacy+of+Love&um=1&ie=UTF-8&tbm=shop&cid=16675782587845216498&sa=X&ei=-NfzTqG2MufX0QHg0vSqAg&ved=0CEMQ8wIwBA
excerpts from the book: http://grateful-for-life.blogspot.com/2010/05/oliver-de-vinck-powerful-blessing.html